Seeking an LTR with a twist m4w
I have recently moved to Round Rock and I am honestly not quite ready to start dating as I need to find a job here first (although I should have something very soon based on what I have heard after recent interviews). What I would like to do is find someone who fits what I need and get to know each other over /text/phone conversations so that we can go slow and really understand each other prior to anything physical happening. I really miss having someone to look forward to seeing and spending time with and the connection that you can only have in a romantic relationship. What I am looking for is to get to know someone special with mutual attraction that has the potential for a long term relationship. I have a car and love to drive, I can have fun being stuck in stop and go traffic while listening to music or anywhere doing anything for that matter (hey, its a talent :). I am somewhat geeky/nerdy in that I currently work in the information technology field, read comics, used to play D D, play video games (although not as much when I have a woman in my life to spend time with), love playing disk golf, and am open to all kinds of other things that might catch my interest at the time. Im super laid-back and level-headed and try to take things as they come. I dont believe in pressuring people and like to let things happen naturally in their own time. .I am dependable, understanding, intelligent, and very affectionate with the right person. It is easy to know where you stand with me and if you dont, you can ask me and Ill tell you honestly.
About you:
1. You prefer to spend the bulk of your time with your man (maybe previous guys have even ed you clingy?).
2. You are very affectionate with your guy and like to hug and hold hands, kiss etc
3. You like dogs (I have one).
4. You like to stay in and cuddle on the couch and bing watch shows but you also have an adventurous side and are willing to go camping/off-roading, try new restaurants, pub trivia, and generally try new things with me.
5. You are willing to exchange G-rated pics so we can gage whether or not we are attracted to each other.
6. Now heres the hard part where I am sure I will lose % of you, I have come to understand that I need a woman who has naturally submissive tendencies. Not necessarily BDSM but a need to take care of your man and be cherished and cared for in return and let your man take the lead most things. I have also come to realize that I need a woman who really enjoys giving her man blowjobs as much because she enjoys it as because he does. I know this is a highly unpopular thing to say I am looking for but I am hoping to find the diamond in the rough who this resonates with. Dont get me wrong, I want to make love too but I also need this. Of course all of this would be if/when we are both comfortable enough with each other and if/when we get to a point where taking our relationship to a sexual level feels right for both of us.
Having said all that I am looking for a loving, commited, and mutually enriching relationship for the long term, NOT a fling or FWB or NSA type thing. I am certainly NOT looking for an SB.
If you feel you fit the above, please respond with the following:
What are you looking for?
What do you like to do?
What would be your idea of a good first date?
How are you most comfortable? (Jeans and T-Shirt, Dressed to , Sweats on the couch )
What kind of music do you like?
How do you like to sleep? (Flannel pajamas on your side of the bed, Wrapped up in your mans arms, On the couch with the T.V. on )
If you want to know any more please feel free to ask me anything and I wish you well in your search.