Love Game
Dating seems to be a game.
Guys are considered desperate and weak and unattractive if they speak of emotions of the heart or if they text a girl more than once a week.
Women only like and consider guys worthy of their attention who act indifferent and are not clear about their feelings!
So nobody is allowed to communicate what they are thinking or feeling. We are all supposed to dance around and speak in hints and gestures but never being clear about our intentions. The truth might hurt someones feelings or turn them off because there is no riddle to solve. Without this aura of mysteriousness and never-ending intrigue about you and your life the girl will quickly lose interest and attraction in you and then she will run off looking elsewhere for another guy but never telling you why!
There are a bunch of dating coaches and gurus and other self proclaimed experts who advocate and promote this kind of insincere behavior via their books and youthbe videos.
In essence everyone who is single or maybe not so single, so many cheater types out there, is supposed to play this guessing game in order to be attractive to the opposite sex. And especially guys need to be mysterious and not clear about their feelings in order to be able to keep his attraction level high in the girls eyes.
How do you feel about this?