DOM PROFESSOR SEEKING
Yes, Im really a professor in the Everett area, and I hope to meet an interesting, verbal woman who would like to explore her sub side. For me, being a dom is a great responsibility. The dom must understand the womans body her desires, how she responds to touch, to pacing, to the mental and physical tease that he controls. The beauty and pleasure of the sub position is that you dont have to worry. Am I beautiful? Does he like my body? What should I do next? Am I a good lover? For the submissive, such questions are not necessary. You only need to submit to the doms guidance, because it is the dominant one who must make the decisions. If the sub does as she is told, then she will be his perfect lover.
For the dom, sexual experience is not about his pleasure, but about yours. If I am the dom, it is my duty to speak to you about what will happen, to know how to gently caress areas of your body before more forcible contact, and to discover the mental buttons that will switch you over into the zone where you go crazy with need. There are times when the sub needs long, slow touching, and other times when she needs to be taken right now, immediately. The eroticism of being the sub is about losing control not just of decision-making, but also of the worries and insecurities that limit our capacity for pleasure. It is for this reason that most subs experience intense when they are restrained, perhaps with their eyes covered, so they can focus completely on their own bodies being touched, explored, and manipulated. To be forced to orgasm, without your own effort and control, can be the most intense experience for the submissive. For the dominant
man, this is also the greatest pleasure of control to see that the woman is brought to total pleasure through my skill, without her effort or action. For the dominant man, nothing is more erotic than exercising this power to give pleasure.
As a sub, you can let someone else do the worrying, so you can lie back and take pleasure in the moment, without responsibility. The dominant/submissive relationship is difficult to put into words. You and I do not know each other, and yet the key to a successful relationship is trust. How can you give control to someone you do not know? Overcoming this barrier takes thought and effort. If you are interested, I can make some suggestions about how we can meet safely and how we can begin to trust. I can also answer any other questions that you might have for example, if you wonder about specific things we may do together. One great joy of the dom/sub relationship is to fully accept without judgment each others deepest, most private thoughts and desires. That is rare in life. Isnt it time to give it a try?