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I must admit that I read the personals from time to time. Lots of us do. But nearly every time I'm left with a sense of sadness. Not so much about not finding anyone who I think might be my match, but with seeing how many women are sincerely looking for a relationship but get frustrated because they don't understand men very well. That's ok, us guys don't understand women very well, either. But since I'm a guy that has dated scores of women (long ago when I was in my prime), and am now old enough to have witnessed the success and failure of many relationships (including my own), I'm going to toss out a few suggestions from my own point of view in hopes that it will help some of you wonderful ladies find a true gentleman. It's not gospel so please don't take it as such. First of all, while browsing through the w4m ads I have seen many women post a list of "automatic exclusions", some of which seem very shallow. For example, a guy might live with his mother because it's family tradition not to ship an aging parent off to a nursing home to die, or maybe just because it's economical (which is being 'fisy responsible'). He may not have all his original teeth because of an accident. But my favorite is age. I just read a post where a woman only wants men who fall within a 3-year range.... incredible. Hey, we've all met 50-year-olds who act 20 and 20-year-olds who act 50. And if dating someone old enough to be your dad is creepy then what about if he's old enough to be your brother? Or son? If you can't make that separation, or you're only measure of maturity is chronological age then you're just showing that you're superficial. And that's not a good thing if you're looking for a deep relationship. Of course if you ARE that superficial then good luck. Also, remember where you're looking: craigslist. Set your expectations accordingly and cut us guys a little slack. This isn't a fairy tale; we are real people who live in the real world with real issues. No, that DOESN'T mean you should learn to tolerate a jerk. It DOES mean that you may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. So how do you tell a frog from a prince? You can't. At least not by reading just the CL posts. As long as he doesn't cross the line (like posting pics of his genitals), you'll just have to take a chance and find out for yourself. But that's what dating is all about. That's what you have to do if you're serious about finding the right guy because nothing good in life comes easy. And that's not just a cliche; we don't place a high value things that divorced swingers searching orgasm hot ladies come easy. Remember the other cliche, "easy come, easy go"? Ok, so you think you found a guy that might be a good catch. How do you get more info? Some women get background checks. But those can get expensive, especially when the pond is full of frogs. Well, here's a couple ways to quickly filter out the deadbeats for free: First, check the driver's license. If it's suspended (which it probably is if he only has an ID card) then that should raise a red flag. Licenses get suspended for all kinds of reasons such as DUI, upaid tickets, failure to pay child support..... things that are generally irresponsible (and yes, doing something illegal is irresponsible when the consequences affect other people). If he won't cough up a DL then toss him back in the pond. Another thing to check is if he has a current and valid Concealed Pistol License (CPL). If you don't like guns then get over it because this is a big deal. Why? Because a Washington State CPL can only be issued after a detailed criminal background check by the FBI showing that he has no felonies, no history of domestic violence, no recent drug abuse and has never been locked up in the mental ward. That's one heck of a background check and he'll already have it in his wallet. Knowing that, it's really suprising that single women don't hang out at gun shows.... go figure. Now let's face a fact: physical attraction is important to guys. But while appearance is important, it is usually not so important that it will prevent a relationship. For the right woman, most of us horny-toads will take the time to find an attraction that may not be visible at first glance (or second glance, or third glance....). Just remember that some effort by you to look attractive is always appreciated. On the other hand, no effort at all to look attractive is frequently a deal-breaker -- if you don't care about what is important to us then don't demand the same. And that applies to a lot of other things as well. Which brings me to my best suggestion: Make a list of your priorities, things in life that are most important to you. 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