SWF Any Age Over 45 Anywhere In L.A.
What do “I” look for in a woman? At 55 years of age and 18 years of divorce, I have an answer.
I am a Black man looking for a very serious companion!.
Directly to the point, I want to know how you view the world, yourself – and the relationship of both. Think of it as your “worldview”! It is here that’s going to get me inside of you – and vice-versa.
I’m the least bit concerned about your job resume, how many positions you’ve held, the number of warranties you’ve exhausted on BMW’s – or even the amount of sky miles you’ve racked up over the years. All of these things are great after an evening of hot sex – but offers little insight as to what makes you a person.
Your views shape you – the person, just as my views shape me. Let me give you an example.
I believe compatibility is optimal when married woman wants hot sex dating sites reviews 2 people see the same goal/goals. In retrospect, if the views of 2 individuals find them constantly compromising – there’s a good chance you’re with the wrong person. It’s the equivalent of placing a size 10 foot in a size 8 shoe.
However, I firmly believe in a degree of tolerance. Contrary to popular belief, I ‘m not looking for Ms. Perfect – in body, mind, or profession. Just as I myself am considered an ever-improvement project – it’s where your heart and attitude is directed.
I [like any man and perhaps you as any woman] do have my fantasies as to what really turns me on as a man seeking a mate. Keeping this in mind – I’ve learned too often fantasy has a place, just as long as fantasy is kept in it’s place by being limited to books, dreams and films [ok and yes the bedroom]. The trick is not to mix fantasy with relationship expectations. This is where trouble begins and I have seen my fair share of it.
To briefly address a couple of talking points to the perspective suitor: I’m tall, slim, light complexion, don’t smoke, a beer once in a while, have a decent education – and this blue collar worker makes no where near the often required 6 figure income. I have an array of leisure activities that keep me out of trouble.
I want your love and affection – not daily rounds of mental Olympics with you.
If you’re a woman who has arrived at a place similar to what I’ve described – perhaps you’re someone I’m looking for. Impress me with your smile and some of that personality!
I don’t ask for much.