Not sure what I want maybe you?
23yo single white male in search of female - age, race, and marital status not necessarily important. I'm looking for someone independent, which doesn't mean single, but means can stand on her own two feet and doesn't NEED me emotionally, financially, or otherwise. If that's you, please continue reading and get in touch if you like what you hear.
I go back and forth on what I want to develop. I think it's best to talk and see if we're compatible and then to see how our interests and plans align, and then to allow what ever happens to happen. I think it's best not to artificially force a label onto a relationship before it even starts, but rather to let us organiy develop into friends, lovers, partners, or whatever it is we become. I think at this point I am open to all of those possibilities, though I'm preferential to finding a lover, and as I said above, I'm open to you being older or younger than me (of legal age at least) or being in a relationship or marriage (under the right circumstances). In any case, I'll respect your character, experience, and current situation vis-a-vis your privacy.
You might like me if:
1. You're a grad student or academic. So am I and I genuinely love listening to others talk about their research and projects.
2. You like making fun of movies while you watch them.
3. You think hygiene and punctuality are not only kinds of respect we show others, but cardinal virtues in their own right.
4. You're a social drinker who likes cabernet, gin, or craft beer and doesn't mind someone who likes one cigarette per week or less.
5. You enjoy argument for argument's sake.
6. You think direct communication, sometimes even bluntness, is important in maintaining healthy contact between people. You say what you mean and ask for what you want.
I try to be an open book (while protecting my identity and allowing you to protect yours until we're sure we're comfortable with each other), so please ask any questions you like of me. I'm a friendly guy, told I'm good looking, mostly fit (though I'm noticing some padding appearing on my abdomen), and very open-minded. If in doubt, get in touch first and satisfy your questions before moving on, I'd really enjoy hearing from you!