"work" for getting a divorce. You just knee-jerk-reaction divorced him. In my mind there is a bunch of work some one needs to do before you get a divorce. Divorces aren't a glorified break up. For most people, they are an earth shattering, family tearing, gut wrenching, part of you dying, hell. Please don't come back on here and tell me that's what it was for you. It couldn't have been. If it was, you would have carefully pondered, at each step of the divorce: Is there any way, now or in the future, I could forgive him? Is this worth splitting up our family? Why did this happen? What was MY part in it? Am I even going to try reconciling? How well do I know myself and my ability to grow or forgive? What is it that I'm really mad about? Have I even TRIED getting past this with him? How much time do I give him with trying to move past this issue, so that know that in the future I know I made the right choice if I divorce him? Is there professional, personal or spiritual counseling we could go to that might help us?
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"Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other."
Looking for a text/email hang out lady friend that is on the level of living life in true happiness, compassion and is down to earth as I am. (yeah all that in one huh?)
__Likes and things I do. This is not in great detail, it's off the top of my shaved little head. Details come when two people share in real in time right? Overview so to speak.
I like nice people, people that live life as they learn to be truly happy. This is not rare but very hard to find as far as someone that one can trust and relax with.
-- I have found it is how we react to what life throws at us that counts. If something bad happens to us then we should learn to embrace it and learn from the experience. If something bad happens to others I feel we should embrace their suffering and take it in and replace it with the gifts and benefits GOD has given us.
--Working out...(Yeah I need more ) being an ex fitness trainer I am now learning to put it all together for myself so I can live in good health. How one keeps in shape is the key to making it fun right? I love hiking, biking, walking and anything good for the body..
--Music is a BIG thing for me, ok it's a very big thing. I search for tunes that expand the mind and open the soul,.
--Wii person here for sure and also big on movies and hug time.
--Massage (i am a master masseur) for horses, pets and chair sessions for people. There is nothing like having someone care for every muscle. It is a gift I offer those in need.
--I do computer repair and give lessons..
-- Humor? Yes ..
--Trying new things? I do not do hang gliding or Free climbing nowdays but willing to take a risk if it's worth it...Heck I'm on Clist right....
I like BEING HONEST, (yeah we all lie-some more and some less. I get that) I just like how things flow without lies, it's a better life.
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"Every day, think as you wake up, today I am fortunate to be alive, I have a precious human life, I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others; to achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings. I am going to have kind thoughts towards others, I am not going to get angry or think badly about others. I am going to benefit others as much as I can."