1) That's situational, but I'm a filterless model so speaking honestly isn't a problem. I typiy try to speak kindly as well, but despite my best efforts at times, I can come off a bit harsh. 2) A recent unexpected death in the family. 3) Absolutely not. 4) I'm good with the one I was born into. 5) Not the squishy, happy answer that everyone has given, but it was definitely memorable. A friend of mine dared me to go on a blind date with a woman she had known for about a year. After asking her why she thought this woman would be a suitable match for me, I decided to rise to the challenge. The evening started with us meeting at a restaurant of her choice, getting past the initial awkwardness, and engaging in a rather humorous conversation while waiting to be seated for dinner. We get seated, order, and resume our conversation, which is progressing nicely when dinner arrives. About half way through dinner, a foreign finds its way to the middle of my dinner plate. I stop, blink several times, make sure my facial expression doesn't convey my alarm, look across the table at my date for the evening, and that's when it hits me she wears dentures. Well, I should say she has dentures and not well anchored ones because if they were well anchored, they would not have found their way out of her mouth and onto my dinner plate. She casually apologizes, reaches over and retrieves her chompers from my plate, wipes them off, puts them back where they belong and proceeds with her dinner. A few minutes later she looks across the table and says, "You're not a big eater are you?" The truth is, I ordinarily eat like both of my legs are hollow but, despite the fact that I had ordered one of my favorite meals and was beyond hungry when we met for dinner, I was suddenly full and apprehensive of asking her if she would like anything for dessert. I don't have a problem with people who wear dentures and I pass no judgments as to why. However, I do take issue with poorly anchored dentures. Due to a hunting accident, my grandfather wore dentures that would randomly lunge forward in mid-sentence and the bejeezus outta me when I was a kid. They never actually came out, but it was kinda creepy so you can imagine my reaction when a set landed in my dinner plate.
A more reasonable approach, perhaps? m4w
Perhaps we could dispense with some of the cliches one comes across in most postings:
There is nothing casual about intimate relations ... they may be non-romantic in nature and purely "physical," but are never casual and care-free (at least for well balanced, stable, individuals who are not on any drugs - legal or illicit).
Nobody should need to specify that they are either "DD free," or are only interested in someone who is not a VD ridden drug addict. It should go without saying that one is clean and free of disease. At the very least, one should expect honesty about this one issue.
Why the need to specify the interest in seeking a FWB, F-Buddy, no-strings relationship, or anything else which is synonymous? If someone was seeking a wife/husband, romantic relationship, etc., why would they post or search through the "casual encounters" section of CL? It is more than implied that seeking a physical relationship of one sort or another is the whole purpose of the section itself.
There are probably a whole slew of other absurdities as well ... however, the real salient issue one should ponder prior to posting is this: What sets any of us apart from the rest of the posters?
For myself, it is probably the hope (and expectation) that there are selective, reasoned women out there who may have incredible drives and urges such as myself ... yet are able to be calmly discerning in regards to finding the appropriate partner to satiate those needs. Of course we have the sometimes aching need for physical fulfillment, but we won't settle for just anyone, and will not succumb to impulse. This only leads to guilt and emptiness. Many of us who have had physical "arrangements" in the past with a partner with whom we had great chemistry can attest to how fantastic that it can actually be. It's the type of relationship that one can look back on and smile ... safe in the knowledge that while pleasurable and indeed memorable, it was only possible with a specific person during a specific time. Finding that person it the challenge.
One has to be quite discriminating. Some people have ulterior motivations, or turn out to be unstable. However, attempting to meet the right match for a exclusive, physical relationship at a bar (or it's equivalent) is fraught with married woman wants hot sex filipina girls much more uncertainty. At the very least, this type of forum allows a far greater deal of initial anonymity and the ability to clearly spell out wants and expectations prior to chatting on the and eventually meeting in person if everything clicks.
Naturally, I'd be delighted to discuss things more with the right woman. If you have the desire to truly find the right partner to blow off some steam with from time to time without the worries that come with the bar scene, etc., ... let's discuss things.
As for me, I'm easy-going kind of guy... basiy a throw-back (with a extremely intense "drive") Definitely not a metro-sexual. White, 30's, athletiy built, and have never been deemed unattractive (although we all have our personal preferences). Of course, I'd be happy to exchange photos upon serious reply.
As for my kind of woman, well, I have no real readily defined fantasy woman. I am primarily attracted to white women in their 20's-40's who take care of themselves physiy and mentally. The rest of the attraction comes with discussion